Life Laugh Latte

Nursing Home Here We Come...

2011-03-21T05:00:00.000-07:00

Everyone is trying to avoid the inevitable. We can't wait to get there. Bingo parties, mini-bus trips to Vegas and the Mall, someone to cook and clean for us everyday, chair aerobics...sounds like heaven!

Love, Holly & Charisse

Once Upon A time...

2011-01-04T09:03:00.000-08:00

Once upon a time two women set out to start a blog...decided they actually love to vlog...spent a year caught up in writing, reading, video taping, and ultimately...EXHAUSTED! One day these women start hearing from girls on Youtube that they would like them to be online moms. The women think, "Are they insane? How did they come up with that idea watching our random, funny chats we do for Life Laugh Latte?!" Lots of teen girls start writing e-mails asking their questions about growing up. After responding to a few the women realize that it couldn't hurt to try doing a video or two and see what response they get.

That started in March, 2010 and although it hasn't exactly been "videos gone viral," it has turned into something we never expected. We answer over 100 questions a month through e-mail, and have 53,000 views of our "Ask Mom Series" and "Reality Check" videos. Girls roughly age 10-18 are our demographic and they ask everything from..."When will I start my period?, "How can I know if he likes me?", "My friends are involved in risky behaviors...how do I help them?", "What will happen at my first gyno appt.?", "Help, I think I'm pregnant!", "How do I get out of an abusive relationship?", and the most common question, "How do I talk to my mom about _____?"

Having a 13 year old daughter now it has really opened my eyes to the importance of staying connected and being available every day. I've learned that I have to earn and keep her trust, and spend the time with her that allows me the opportunity to bring up the big and little topics that are current to her world. It is so easy to forget that puberty and beyond is familiar to us since we have been down that path...but it is 100% new, embarrassing, and a bit scary to the child just entering those years.

I feel so thankful that we get to be a little part of their experience as we give them simple advice and encourage them to seek out an adult in their life that they can confide in. So, if you have been wondering where we have been...come check out our videos on Youtube. If you have a teenage daughter introduce her to our videos and use them as a way to start discussions. You can find us on our Youtube channel...http://www.youtube.com/user/lifelaughlatte?feature=mhum#p/u

Someday soon we'll be back in the saddle here at Life Laugh Latte as well. Happy New Year Friends!

Love, Holly & Charisse

They Hope You Won't Look In The Closet!

2010-11-17T11:12:00.000-08:00

Remember being told you couldn't go out until your room was clean? Chores are a never ending battle in our homes and a subject of frequent conversation in our mom circles...

So great to have you stop by. We've missed hangin' with you.
Holly & Charisse

Why do people do that?

2010-08-09T05:00:00.000-07:00

Hello bloggie friends! Yup, Summer kicked our blogging to the curb...but we have had a ton of fun! Found some time to vlog with our new video camera the other day. Guess what...the quality stinks. Not sure what we are doing wrong yet...so please forgive and laugh with us anyway.

Today's video will share some of our favorite stories that make us ask the question..."Why do people do that?"

Thank you whats around the next bend for the Sunshine Award. We just love it! Hugs and kisses right back at you:)

Love, Holly & Charisse

The Crown Of Life...or Funny things Charisse's Mom Says

2010-06-28T05:00:00.000-07:00

Charisse's mom has a funny way of thanking her! We hope this makes you laugh...and think about the funny things your mom does.

Have a great day,
Holly & Charisse

Conversations Including...Is Your Dog Prejudice?

2010-06-21T05:00:00.000-07:00

Today we are discussing dog etiquette, stupid cooking shows, and wondering if people should name their body parts. Yeah...probably pretty inappropriate!

We love you faithful followers!
Holly

Hangin' Out With Holly & Charisse...

2010-06-14T05:00:00.000-07:00

Hang out with us as we discuss how our weight loss journey is going, introduce you to Sumo guy, say a tearful goodbye to the two followers that have abandoned us, and talk about bad hair days.

Just good old fashioned girlfriend time. Thanks for stopping by.
Holly & Charisse

Cooking With Holly & Charisse

2010-06-07T05:00:00.000-07:00

No day is ordinary when we are together! So it is safe to say that this won't be your typical cooking video either. Filled with dozens of great tips and loads of laughter. And yes...as the queen of our castles we must dress the part!

Bon Appetit,
Holly & Charisse

American Idol - Bad Performances

2010-05-31T08:03:00.000-07:00

American Idol had several teen guest appearances this season that we were very disappointed in. Charisse rants on Bieber, and I comment on Miley. If they were contestants would they even make it past the auditions?

Have a wonderful Memorial Day...and a terrific week!
Holly & Charisse

What Am I...Your Puppet?!

2010-05-27T05:00:00.000-07:00

Do ventriloquists make you nervous? If so, you will thoroughly enjoy watching Charisse use me as her puppet. Enjoy!

Have a great day!
Holly & Charisse

Weightloss Challenge - Confessions

2010-05-17T06:55:00.000-07:00

It's tough losing weight. Really painful! So many emotions. Here we candidly make our weight loss confessions.

Have a great day,
Holly & Charisse

What happens between takes...

2010-05-13T05:00:00.000-07:00

Sometimes we don't know what to chat about, and that's when the REALLY DUMB STUFF gets taped. Hope you enjoy 2 minutes of silliness. Thanks for coming by.

Happy Thursday!
Holly & Charisse

The Weight Loss Challenge

2010-05-10T05:30:00.000-07:00

The battle of the bulge can creep up on a person pretty quickly. Watch us as we challenge each other to a "who can lose 5 lbs first" friendly competition. Enjoy weight loss...Holly & Charisse style!

Thanks for coming by! Have a great day:)

She Has A Lot To Teach Me...

2010-04-28T14:04:00.000-07:00

I'm walking into unknown territory...my little girl has grown up to be a preteen. I thought I would share my massive "fail" on Saturday which went something like this.

She was upset about not achieving a goal she set for herself.
She walked away from her friends and gave me the "I need to vent" look.
I walked with her and listened.

-Sounds good so far doesn't it!-

In her anger she started saying things that really were not true about her life.

-Inside I start to think, "I have to say something to stop the death spiral!"-

I tried to remind her of all of the great things that had happened to her lately.

-Silence-

I reminded her of her accomplishments she had achieved just that day.

-Silence...stink eye...turned and walked away from me.-

I called out for her to stop...that walking away was disrespectful.

-More stink eye...with arms folded. I'm losing her big time!-

I told her to try to put her anger aside for another hour until her last race. That she wouldn't want to jeopardize something she worked so hard for.

-Clenched teeth and an "ok mom" and she walked away.-

Communication between us has changed, she needs something different now that she is older. I had a little time alone waiting for her race, and I just prayed that God would show me what to do.

It had been quiet for awhile in the car as we drove home.

I finally broke the silence telling her that I felt like I had really handled things wrong earlier with her.

-She nodded-

I told her that in this new time of her life I need her to teach me how to support her.
I asked her what she needed from me in that difficult moment when she had been angry.

She said, "I just needed you to listen mom. I didn't want you to say anything."

I asked her if she would let me know if she did need me to say something?
-She assured me that she would.-

Then I explained that when I am with a friend I know to listen and wait to see if they want advice or tenderness.
As a mom it feels different.
It feels like it is my job to help her see her situation clearly, to comfort her, to talk her through it.
Moms don't stand by and watch their kids experience pain and say nothing.
I asked her if she could understand why I responded the way that I did?
-She said that really made sense now that I explained it.-

It was a light bulb moment for both of us. There is so much about this budding teen that I am going to have to learn. Here's hoping that you can indeed teach old dogs new tricks. She sure has a lot to teach me!

Embarrassing Dating Moments!

2010-04-27T10:31:00.000-07:00

Charisse and I are sharing some of our embarrassing and funny high school dating moments with you this week! Laugh more...it looks good on you!

Have a great day!
Holly & Charisse

Who Cheated On Whom?

2010-04-21T05:00:00.000-07:00

Many of us have heard the sad news about Sandra Bullock's marriage. We have our own theory of what might have happened...

We love you blog friends. Thanks for coming by.

Tellin' Stories On Grandma!

2010-04-08T11:41:00.000-07:00

Grandmas do the darndest things don't they? Here are a couple of funny stories we wanted to share with you today. Hope they make you giggle. Does it remind you of anything funny your grandma does?

Thanks for stopping by.

Feelin' All Ghetto!

2010-03-30T05:00:00.000-07:00

It is never too late to reinvent yourself. Here is what happens when two forty year old women try on a new persona. What do you think? Should we stick with it?

Have a great day!

Wordless Vlog Wednesday

2010-03-24T07:57:00.000-07:00

Hope you enjoy 40 seconds of stupidity!

Have a great day!

Hangin' With Celebs

2010-03-22T08:00:00.000-07:00

Life in California means always meeting super famous people. Right?! Tune in to find out who our famous friends are. We know the anticipation is KILLING you!

Happy Monday...have a great week! We'd love to hear from you...leave a comment:)

Is It A Secret Or A Sin?

2010-03-19T07:32:00.000-07:00

Happy Friday Everyone! Every human being can relate to this. One of those things that either happened to you as a child, or as a parent. Charisse shares the angst of this touching family moment, and then brings it full circle to include an Aloha Friday question for you to answer. Watch and find out what it is...

This week we are double dipping. We are linking up with Friday Follow at Midday Escapades which is a networking bloghop. They have about 800 participants each week. A great way to meet new blog friends.

We are also hangin' loose with Aloha Friday. If you’d like to participate, just post your own question on your blog and leave your link below. Don’t forget to visit the other participants! This is hosted by Kailani at. Her Mister Linky draws about 100 blogs each week.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

70's TV...Reminisce With Us

2010-03-16T07:15:00.000-07:00

Hello Friends...time to giggle again with us! We took a stroll down memory lane remembering our favorite 70's tv shows. Which of our favorites did you love? What shows would you add to our list? We thought of at least a dozen other goodies after we finished taping. Enjoy...

Don't forget to make our day by leaving a comment! Happy Tuesday!!

It's Time To Wash Your Bra When...

2010-03-11T23:17:00.000-08:00

What happens when two 40 something year old women get tired and silly? Well...this is what happens! Hope it makes you laugh as hard as it made us laugh!!

Don't forget to leave a comment.
We love hearing from you.
Have a great weekend!

Joining "Friday Follow"

Humble Beginnings

2010-03-10T09:07:00.000-08:00

Hey Y'all! Didn't grow up in the South...but that is just fun to say! Today's video is a look at our humble beginnings. Before I knew to look at the camera, to not sit so my thighs look 50 lbs heavier...yeah you get the idea. This is where it all started. Hope it puts a smile in your day.

Hopefully tomorrow Charisse and I will not only have time to answer the dozens of questions about puberty on video for our Youtube "Ask Mom Series", but also tape a few new segments for our blogging buddies. That's the goal...we'll see! Have a great day:)

Surfing For The Lowdown

2010-03-08T08:51:00.000-08:00

A month ago several of our Youtube subscribers started sending us e-mails asking us to produce videos about growing up. It has been so surprising for us to have this young teen audience. Why on earth would they want to watch two 40-something women talk about life? In our highest viewed video we told "period" stories that has now logged over 3,000 views. Sure, that is nothing in the world of Youtube...but it is many thousands more than our other videos. It made us sit up and take notice.

Last week we filmed our first "Ask Mom Series" of 5 videos. We linked an e-mail account to it and asked girls to send in their questions. If you wonder why we were quiet on our blog last week...that is why! Getting that up and running and answering their questions by e-mail has taken some time.

Why are these girls turning to Youtube for this information? As young girls we talked to our girlfriends and moms. Embarrassment about "growing up" topics couldn't override our need to discuss, face to face with people, how to handle them. That isn't the case today. The natural tendency for teens to turn inward, share less, seek privacy, and start to think for themselves is then coupled with the internet that requires no intimacy. This makes it so much harder for us as parents to reach out to our kids. Our kids can get answers (ones we may or may not agree with) without ever asking us anything.

In our videos we answer the questions and encourage them to take that information and talk about it with a trusted adult. One girl said that she sent a text to her mom when she got her period because she just couldn't get the words out. Does that make your heart ache? It makes me want to step up the quality time I spend with my 12 year old. Since we started this project, my daughter and I have had a date every weekend. I'm just seeing more clearly how I need to be a bigger presence in her life.

The quality and vulgarity of what is available online is horrible. This young audience is so vulnerable and hungry for information. How does this make you feel? Do you have any ideas to help us meet these needs in our videos? What would you want your child to know if they found our video series? We would love your input.

Go Ahead...Light Up!

2010-03-03T05:00:00.000-08:00

In general...taking dieting advice from Charisse is probably not a great idea:) She is a very creative thinker however. Here we chat about lighting up in California. Hope it puts a giggle in your day.

Thanks for coming by. Leave a comment. Have a great day.

Open Your Eyes!

2010-02-28T13:23:00.000-08:00

Today my heart was broken. You might expect this in some far off place, but right here in America, little girls are sold into slavery. How can this be possible? I like to pretend our world is safe, just, and kind...but in reality there is so much injustice that it makes me feel overwhelmed...physically sick to my stomach.

Our church continues this week in the series called
"The Ripple Effect."

A process of letting our hearts break for the things that break the heart of God. Then showing us how to reach out, love, and make a difference. I was unable to link to the short video we watched today, but found this one on Youtube. This video is difficult to watch...but the message and images SHOULD make every mother, father, and human being on this planet angry!

Today we were challenged to take action through a movement called "Not For Sale". In Cambodia this group is...
*Rescuing women and children from human trafficking.
*Providing them a safe-house with medical and emotional care.
*They are taught how to be seamstresses.
*A factory is being built to give them jobs.
*They get stock in this industry.
*They are taught how to save the money, and helped when it is time to buy their own home.
*The recording artists...Third Day...has just contracted them to make all of their clothing to sell in stores and concerts.

YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE TOO!
So as we sat in the pews we each pulled out our cell phones and sent the following text to donate $10 to help "Not For Sale" continue with their mission to end slavery. 30 seconds of your time reaches out to the hurting. Here are the steps.
*Get your phone and open up a new text window.
*In the "To" section type 90999
*In the "text" section type Respond
*A message will come right back to you. Type in response to this "YES".
*Another message will come back to you. You can select yes or no as a response.
*Your phone bill will show a $10 charge.

That's it! I will learn in church next week how much was collected, and I'll update our blog so you can see how you were a part of this movement to help others in need. If this is a topic you want to research more I would highly recommend going to the International Justice Mission site.

I opened my eyes today. It was painful...but I have a 12 year old daughter.
I couldn't listen and fail to respond to the plea of little girls everywhere begging us to make a change in our world.
How will you respond?

Staying Connected...

2010-02-25T06:00:00.000-08:00

Remember holding that baby in your arms? There was no choice but to be connected. The needs were demanding...but simple.

The first moment I held my little Andy. So overwhelmed with emotion!

As a child grows, staying connected gets increasingly more difficult. Another child enters the picture. Work, household chores, school, church, sports, all encroach on that precious time together.

Connecting takes some thought. It is an expression of who you are individually and as a family. This topic is so close to my heart particularly now as I see my twelve year old slowly moving into her own world. She doesn't share everything with me anymore. I miss the little girl that talked 24 hours a day about every little thing she thought.

Hannah age 2.

I just try to be where she is. Hang out with her. I tell her about things I remember from being 12. Boys, friends, music, dancing, going to the roller rink. I try to say yes as often as I can...so my no's will mean something. I ask her opinion on things. She is dependable, inclusive, a fabulous student, a great athlete, and incredibly diverse in her interests. The other day I spent just a couple of minutes telling her, "It's normal for you to want your space, to have private thoughts and experiences. Just know that you are a super important part of my life. I always want to be an important part of yours too. Whenever you need me...I'll happily be there!"

My beautiful Hannah age 12.

First thing every morning I wake Ben and tell him that my day won't be great until I get his magic hug. Luckily he still enthusiastically gives it to me. His smile lights up my heart...something I often tell him too. Sometimes I tease him that if I was in 4th grade I would stare at him from across the room and think about how dreamy he is. I whisper in his ear how I love having an amazing helper. My "go to kid" when it comes to getting something done.

Little chubby baby sweetness. Ben at 5 months.

I tell them about their positive traits. Ben has a soft heart, loving, honest, a good friend, funny, a terrific athlete, and extremely generous.

Holding our chihuahua Nacho...Ben age 10.

Andy is 6 so he still needs tons of cuddles. Loving him means watching all of the amazing things that he does moment by moment. Connecting with him means understanding how creative he is and affirming that his love for color, texture, art, and beauty in the world...makes him just as much a boy as his sport loving brother. He still needs me to help him with things which also makes time with him more of a natural expression of my day.

In the evenings we have dinner together at the table. We always ask each other about the day. Often we cuddle on the couch and watch something everyone likes. That's when the holding hands, snuggling under blankets, and laughter fills the house.

At bedtime each child gets tucked in with their own special prayer. My arms surround them as I whisper in their ear. It is part of our private time. They tell me if there is something specific they have concerns about. I pray with them so that they can hear my hearts desire to raise them with Godly wisdom. To be the mom each of them needs. And some expression of how thankful I am that God gave me this job to do. The finale is the lotion I put on their arms and pillow. Sometimes lavender, sometimes vanilla...often it is what I wore during the day. A little bit of mom that stays with them as they fall asleep.

Sometimes we take them alone out on a date. There have been father & daughter dances. Mom and son walks. But, it's the day to day that I think holds the most impact. Finding one of them walking through the house and stealing them away to our bedroom where my husband and I lay on the bed and tell them all of the amazing qualities they have, and why we love them so.

My hope is that the seeds of love that have been planted in each of them grows into a beautiful garden that they will one day share with their spouses and children. There is so much that I get wrong everyday...writing this helps me put life in perspective and remember why this is such a treasured time to embrace.

So, maybe this could be a "comment discussion" about the meaningful ways you show love in your family. I'm always looking for new ideas. Please share...

Welcome Friday Follow Participants!

Going To McDonalds - Outtakes from "Lunch On The Go"

2010-02-24T08:13:00.000-08:00

Our "Lunch On The Go" video got a great response. Here, we put together the outtakes we liked but couldn't use the first time around. Hope it makes you laugh today.

Leave a comment. Tell a friend about our blog. Have a great day!
Holly & Charisse

Stop, Look, Listen, Respond

2010-02-22T07:55:00.000-08:00

"To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be the world."
Anonymous quote

Once while entering a local juice bar with my son...a homeless man said he was hungry and asked me for one of the items on the menu. Happily I ordered what he requested...and together my son and I delivered the smoothie. As I reached out to shake his hand, I asked him what his name was. He looked at me and said, "Robert." My son asked him several questions and thoughtfully he answered them. As we turned to go he said, "Thank you for asking me my name...no one ever does that."

"I am only one, but I am one. I can't do everything but I can do something. I won't let what I can't do stop me from doing what I can."
quote by Edward Everett Hale

I have to force myself to Stop, Look, Listen, and Respond. I see laundry, dirty dishes, unmade beds, groceries to buy, errands to run. Things that are undone and need to be made right again every day. Bigger more complicated life issues like injustice, hunger, and poverty feels beyond my reach. My joy in helping Robert was that he had a specific request, a simple need I could act on immediately. It wouldn't change his lot in life but maybe the act of kindness would fill his belly and give him an ounce of hope that the world still contained some compassion. As it so often happens...it changed me probably far more than it helped him.

I don't have to look very hard to see people in my path that long for a loving touch, a kind word, a helping hand. What I've learned is that responding to the need is always far more fulfilling than continuing on with my scheduled list. A year from now I won't remember the soccer practice that was missed, but forever I'll have the memory of listening to the mom that was feeling so overwhelmed with life, and asking her if I could pray. Hopefully, the few times I do get it right, my kids will learn from my actions to value people more than the other distractions of life.

"Let my heart be broken by the things that break the heart of God."
Bob Pierce

Here are a few ideas of things you can do today to make a difference.
*Look for people in your path today that need encouragement.
*Talk to your kids about seeing the needs of others.
*Take a few minutes to think about what breaks your heart and Google search to learn more.
*For $6 you can purchase a bed net online to protect families against malaria. 1 million people die of this disease each year. Learn more
*Visit a nursing home.
*Instead of looking away...say hello to the homeless.
*If you love hospitality, offer to cook a meal for someone in need.
*Set up a lemonade stand with the kids and donate the money to a worthy organization.
*Think about how you are gifted and use them.

*The church I attend, Menlo Park Presbyterian Church, is doing a series called "The Ripple Effect". Opening our eyes to the pain of the world and responding to those needs. Our pastor is John Ortberg who is a nationally known author and speaker. If interested, click here...The Ripple Effect...to see the first talk in the series. It might just start something stirring in your heart.

Lunch On The Go For Busy Moms

2010-02-18T15:10:00.000-08:00

Susan @ Between Naps on the Porch is our hostess for Tablescape Thursday.
Friday Follow is hosted by One 2 Try, Hearts Make Families and Midday Escapades.

Charisse and I are totally new to this...but we gave it our unique Life Laugh Latte spin. We actually created and edited this vlog today. So hot off of the press you'll burn yourself. This is some of our best work. It's worth the extra time to watch it...I promise you! So sit back and learn a thing or two from the minivan masters. Enjoy!

Just Breathe...

2010-02-17T00:19:00.001-08:00

Stop for a moment and take a deep breath!

So many things need to be done, but your worth is not measured by this.
You are valuable because you live and breathe.
God created each precious detail of who you are...and He delights in you.
So, in this moment rest in the knowledge that you are loved...and alive for a special purpose.

Life is not measured by the breaths you take, but by its breathtaking moments.
quote by Michael Vance

They listen, care, call, pray, cry, laugh, celebrate...treasured friends.

We must discover the joy of each other, the joy of challenge, the joy of growth.
quote by Mitsugi Saotome

Family...they give and take love, forgiveness, time,
a listening ear, encouragement, and they are a reflection of your inner beauty.

Give thanks for the moments you laughed until you peed your pants.

Moments to be creative, silly, and fun.

Life is a blessing. Take a moment to be grateful.

Private Moments...Celebrating The Spirit Of Aloha

2010-02-11T08:34:00.000-08:00

Charisse and I really embraced the spirit of Hawaii on our vacation. Here we celebrate tradition, nature, and sea creatures in our own special way.

In case you would like to sing along with Charisse, here are the lyrics.
Little Crab by Charisse
"Little crab did you lose your mommy? With your pretty bobble eyeballs. Little crab where's your daddy. I love you. Now you're not so itchy anymore...little crab."

We hope you didn't miss out on the first two installments of our Aloha series. If you did, go check out Wordless Wednesday...From A Remote Location & MIA...Aloha

Wordless Wednesday...From A Remote Location

2010-02-10T07:55:00.001-08:00

Lots of blogs have "Wordless Wednesday". Not easy to create a wordless vlog...but here we go.

You won't want to miss our MIA...Aloha vlog from yesterday. More fun to come!
Hope it put a little hop, skip, and a jump into your day! Love, Holly & Charisse

MIA...ALOHA!

2010-02-09T12:49:00.001-08:00

Wondering where we have been? Saddle up...because we are taking you with us on our big adventure.

Leave a comment...tell a friend! Peace out...Holly & Charisse

Love is...

2010-01-27T14:49:00.001-08:00

So complex. Nothing touches the human heart more than the notion of perfect love, and really I believe it is one of our greatest life quests. Isn't that why every movie has it as a central plot, and every book I read tries to define it. Most of us grow up looking for it first in our parents and siblings and then through friendship, intimacy, defining our faith, and then with our own children. The cycle goes on and on. Some of the most recent examples of love I've enjoyed reading about in books.

In The Wednesday Sisters friendship is the expression of love that nurtured a belief in self. Leaning on each other, taking turns being strong, stepping in to fill the gaps where family should have been responsible.

In The Help I read about love through justice. Doing what is right to help people on this Earth with no voice. It often puts us outside our comfort zone. It might require us to turn away from beliefs passed down to us by our culture or our families. We might find that a precious few share our convictions, or are willing to do anything about the injustice they perceive.

Hotel On The Corner Of Bitter And Sweet reminded me of the connection that many cultures share requiring obedience as the ultimate symbol of love. In this story obedience was taken to the extreme and was incredibly oppressive. I think most people cringe at the notion of obedience. We turn from it the moment we are born. Human beings want to wander through life at their own whim, making their own decisions, without any consequences. We want love without sacrifice. At the root of obedience is trust. That's a hard thing for a lot of people to do. To me, without obedience the world becomes shades of gray with no real right and wrong. It devalues life experience, the wisdom of those that have traveled the road before us, and leads to a life where we become our own god. Obedience isn't limiting, it is loving and unselfish and wise.

Snowflower And The Secret Fan painted a picture of "Mother love". Life is hard, and so they loved their daughters by teaching them to endure through hardship. Although I couldn't disagree more with this being their only way to express love. It struck me, as I read the book, that I often error on the side of gentleness and compassion. I also want to be the mother that isn't afraid to let my children experience some of the hard edges of life, and be consistent with enforcing responsibility and duty even when it is difficult for both of us. It also painted a beautiful and often painful picture of love through loyalty, even when undeserved.

Love is certainly a rich topic. I wonder what thoughts about love this post brings up for you?

Have a wonderful day...Holly

Bits of Love

2010-01-26T11:22:00.001-08:00

You know we love clips! Little bits of love from the cutting room floor. Here we talk about childhood, obnoxious cell phones ringing, Animal House, and house security. Good times people...good times!

Show us the love...leave a comment. Have an awesome day!

Dear God...

2010-01-21T13:44:00.000-08:00

The devastation is so great...unimaginable suffering. Many people have died and many are trapped. Families have been destroyed, children are alone. The elderly and sick sit uncared for in the streets, nowhere to go. The poverty is immense and there is no end to this in sight.

Open doors and clear all obstacles so that many people can respond to the tugging of their heart to reach out to the people of Haiti. Help our nation to see examples of generosity that far surpass what we have been capable of in the past. Touch the souls of the desperate and give them peace and a hope to cling to. Remind us to pray, to act, and to remember.

Amen

The Ouiji Board & Dreams

2010-01-19T16:44:00.000-08:00

Welcome to Life Laugh Latte! So great to have you hang out with us. Grab your favorite hot beverage and tune in for a dose of fun.

Reading your awesome comments is like a triple shot latte in an IV...that's right folks...it's like a piece of heaven! Have a great day. Holly

Is It Wrong?

2010-01-16T15:39:00.000-08:00

Howdy Y'all! We aren't from Texas...but that is just good fun to say. So, a few weeks back we went to see The Blind Side at the movies. LOVED IT! I'll attach that discussion here as well in case you missed it. Today's vlog brings you a funny sequel. Leave it to Charisse to twist a beautiful story into something WRONG! It's part of why I love her though. Enjoy:)

Here is the "Movie Club" vlog we did for The Blind Side.

Hope you are having a terrific weekend! Leave a comment...or we might cry...no one needs to see that!

Bound...

2010-01-13T13:03:00.000-08:00

Remember The Hungry Caterpillar? He ate and ate until he was chubby. He spun the cocoon. Then, after a time he became the butterfly. Do you ever feel that way when you are reading a book? As I ingest each morsel of Snow Flower And The Secret Fan I'm getting plump with images of Chinese culture from so long ago. I now find myself tucked in the cocoon and needing to digest what I've experienced in each delicious chapter to find out how it applies to my life. Every book I read changes me a little. That's all a part of the wonderful metamorphosis.

So, today I'm looking at the most disturbing aspect of the book which was the foot binding done to each little girl between the ages of four and six. I'm trying to imagine the reality and pain of life lived on 3" feet. This was considered beautiful, erotic, a symbol of obedience. It showed the family you married into that you could endure hardship with grace. Binding was tradition, sometimes a way out of poverty for you and your family. Mothers put their daughters at risk of infection and sometimes death while whispering to them that this was meant to be, and one day they would be grateful.

It's hard to imagine isn't it? Watching your child suffer at your own hand knowing that they would be a servant for life if they chose not to do it. Having once endured the pain yourself, you know exactly what you are inflicting. I spent time online looking at these bound feet...trying to make sense out of a lifetime of physical suffering. I'm attaching a link that gives a tasteful description of the history. Worth a look if you have a strong stomach. (Article/photographs)

My initial reaction is to judge the culture for making these choices. I sit with that thought awhile and see a huge red flag signaling me to find the bigger question to ask myself. Where in my life am I bound? Like it or not we all wear bindings. It may not be on our feet, but we tie them on in some area of our lives and it cripples us. Is it striving for perfection? Is it beauty? Is it success? Is it the idea that our children or our spouse need to be a certain way? Could it be your thought life...constantly criticizing yourself? Maybe it is intimacy or fear of failure or a childhood experience that has shaped your thinking in a negative way?

In my life I seem to go through cycles of bondage. A couple of months a year it is about my appearance. I'll work out more, eat less, and strive for that lower size. Eventually that feels shallow, and I'll turn that energy to something else like blogging, parenting, volunteering or homemaking. No matter what it is...it always starts innocently enough and then gets exaggerated into something bigger than it ever should have been. Before I know it the ropes are tight, I'm struggling, and it's time to get perspective again and break free.

I wonder where you go when you have a bondage to be broken and healed? For me I run desperately to my faith. When I'm there reading scripture, praying honestly from my heart, listening to music that builds me up in the knowledge of who God is and how much He loves me...I'm able to finally let go. I feel the bindings loosening, falling away, and God speaking to me in whispers that quiet my mind.

Important stuff to think about. This is a remarkable book about Chinese culture, family, love, friendship, duty and obedience. It will make you cringe, cry, laugh, think, and feel so very thankful for the freedom and opportunities we now enjoy as women!

I'd love to hear the thoughts you had while reading this post. Or,
if you have already read this book what you loved about it.

You can purchase the book in the right column of our blog in our Amazon store.

Have a wonderful day!

Disneyland & Dexatrim...

2010-01-10T18:02:00.001-08:00

Can you figure out the link between Disneyland and Dexatrim? It will make you laugh, touch your heart, and make you question if indeed it is a good thing to have more than what we need.

Thanks for coming by...and please don't leave without saying hello!

I Want...

2010-01-07T07:56:00.001-08:00

*My mouth to be filled with gentle, thoughtful, encouraging words*

*Authentic moments of connection with the people I love*

*Eyes to see, and a willing heart to respond to the needs in our community*

*To be inspired by great books while enjoying a warm blanket and a latte*

*My children to know how deeply they are loved*

*A sense of accomplishment, and a well defined purpose*

*A new adventure*

*To feel content with what I have...and Thankful*

What do you want?

Life, Laugh, Latte Returns...Happy New Year!

2010-01-05T13:31:00.000-08:00

Welcome back friends! We had an amazing holiday break...and now we are ready to do business. Here is a collection of new clips that will MYGYBO. If you can't find this in the Urban Dictionary...then tune in later this week to find out the meaning. Until then...feel free to tell us what you think it means!

Leave a comment...or else we'll come after you!
Love, Holly & Charisse

Awards

2009-12-21T15:43:00.000-08:00

If this all looks familiar...it is because I forgot to re-date it as a new post. Sorry! I hate that Blogger won't date the article on the day you post it!

Holly at 504Main gave us the "You Give Bloggers A Good Name" award.

Pass this award on to ONE blogger

that you think is truly outstanding,

in both their writing/posting,

and their treatment of fans, commenters,

and fellow bloggers.

These 4 awards came to us from Lynn at Midday Escapades. Holy Macaroni Lynn! That's some bloggy love like I have never seen before. Almost feel like I should smoke a cigarette after that!

Alisa at Faith Imagined gave us this great award. I've always thought it would be fun to be a rocker for a day. Of course I'm not interested in the drugs, alcohol, or affairs...so I would officially be the most boring rocker on the planet. For that reason I'm glad that at least our blog rocks! Thanks Alisa.
This lovely award comes to us from 5thsister.

Jenny Mac at Lets Have A Cocktail gave us the Remarkable Reader award.

Only 4 more shopping days until Christmas...so look above friends and carefully select that perfect bling for your blog. This week I'd like to honor...
*batcrap crazy
*centsational girl
*chicken nuggets of wisdom
*fairy footprints in the sand
*tater tot mom
*martinis or diaper genies
*peeling an orange with a screwdriver
*purple flowers
*ready set 40
*rook no17
*running with letters
*speaking from the crib
*the obnoxious sahm

Merry Christmas everyone! Not sure when we'll be back. Probably after New Years!
Cheers,
Holly & Charisse

Gifts From The Heart...

2009-12-17T09:08:00.001-08:00

Do you still have that "impossible to buy for" person on your list? I'm a big fan of creating gifts from the heart. I'm not crafty, but I'm good with words. I know that all of you are too! So here are a few of my favorite ideas from years past that were a big hit with teachers, grandparents, and friends.

This was a simple project I did for my sons class last year. I bought a bag of cinnamon pine cones, ribbon, a frame, and a decorative tin at our local arts and crafts store. I e-mailed all of the parents in the class and asked them to send me a short phrase of appreciation about their teacher. I typed up the phrases and framed them. In the Christmas tree tin is a Visa gift card.

Here is a close view of the sentiments the kids expressed.

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Last year my son's Kindergarten teacher said she would like the kids to do a service project for the community as her holiday gift. We used some of the class funds to buy rice and beans for a local food bank. The kids helped by bagging the items into smaller family sized portions. I took this picture of them, framed it, and asked them why they loved their teacher. Those statements were typed, and then I used a glue stick to put them on the matting.

A simple bow around the frame and we were ready for the holiday party at school.

My daughter used that same idea and made a beautiful gift last Christmas for her Granddaddy. She also made one for her brother.

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With little ones you can have them draw a couple of pictures, write down their thoughts and feelings, and bind them together in a book at your local copy store with the title page saying something like..."Why I Love You!"

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You can also put your sentiments on a pillow case, a t-shirt, an apron, or a soft fleece blanket. Use fabric markers or puff paint, and consider adding hand prints, or foot prints if you have a baby.

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All of my mom's children and grandchildren have decided to surprise her this Christmas with a memory box. Everyone has written her something special to say what she means to them. On Christmas morning she will open a gift filled with heartfelt admiration for all that she has done for each of us. Just in case this inspires you to write something heartfelt for someone you love; I've decided to post what she will open from me on December 25th.

"I Remember"

I remember…

all of the amazing meals, family dinners together, big Saturday breakfasts.

I remember…

the piles of presents you purchased at Christmas time and lovingly wrapped.

I remember…

laying my head on your lap and feeling your hands rub over my forehead and hair. It is still my most comforting moments of childhood.

I remember…

sleeping in bed with you feeling so safe and secure.

I remember…

talks in the dark while we were in bed, asking questions that were too hard to ask in the daylight.

I remember…

sitting on the barstool and listening to you sing every song in the hymnal while you cooked.

I remember…

the hours you drove me here and there to get to all of the events.

I remember…

watching you enjoy life, throwing your head back in uproarious laughter, grabbing me to dance in the middle of the mall.

I remember…

you telling me over and over how pretty, and smart, and wonderful I was. I just soaked all of those words into my soul.

I remember…

our beautifully cared for home that was always so inviting and warm.

I remember…

hours of storytelling. Hearing about your childhood that was so amazingly different from my own. Never getting enough of that.

I remember…

watching you make friends with anyone we came across during the day, the waitress, the gas attendant, the man walking down the street. It taught me to love people and reach out to the world with open arms.

I remember…

looking at your hands as they did chores around the house or as you held my hand. Your beautiful nails always done to perfection. I still wish I had your nails.

I remember…

thinking how I wanted to grow up to be just as pretty as you are.

I remember…

silliness, giggles, uncontained laughter, loud music, tenderness.

I remember…

your stern finger, your head tilted to the side and your lips tight, snapping fingers, the swat on my knee in the backseat of the car. The combination of the fun and the serious sides of you taught me boundaries and respect and order.

I remember…

your love for my aunts and uncles. Listening to you recall events from long ago, singing your childhood songs in harmony, longing to be together, never allowing a grudge to exist between you.

I remember…

when I was about 10 you asked me to do the dishes. I did a terrible job but you didn’t get mad. You filled the sink again and put them back in. Then you told me that there would always be things in life I wouldn’t want to do, but I could do them as a gift for God. With each chore I could thank Him for life, for toys, for family. I still do that today when I’m tired, when I don’t feel appreciated. What an amazing perspective on life that you so lovingly taught me that day.

I remember…

how you packed us up and moved us to Minnesota because one of your children was having a baby and felt alone and afraid and needed MOM. I realize now what an enormous undertaking that must have been. What a beautiful picture that is of your heart.

I remember…

coming home really late one night after a boy broke up with me in high school. I was crushed as I walked in the door and your arms were wrapped around me without even a question about the time.

I remember…

the boo boos you prayed for, the tuck-ins at night, the books read, the snuggles on the couch, and so much more.

My dream some day is that my children will remember. Their memories will all be preciously linked to the heritage of love you tended to so carefully in my life.

I remember…and I love you too!

Click here on The Blind Side if you joined our Movie Club and wanted to see our vlog.

That's all folks until Sunday when we will post to give out Awards.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Movie Club - "The Blind Side"

2009-12-16T19:28:00.000-08:00

Grab a delicious hot beverage, pull up a chair, and get ready for our first Movie Club meeting! It's time to re-live the great moments of "The Blind Side". Tell us what you thought of it and how it impacted you.

Leave a comment & tell a friend about us. Thanks for coming by!

It's Beginning To SMELL A Lot Like Christmas

2009-12-15T08:32:00.001-08:00

A wonderful scent can bring back cherished memories, create an atmosphere of celebration, or transport me to a place of tranquility. Here are a few of my favorites for the holidays.

This is a Cinnamon Broom that I found at Trader Joes for $3.50. The fibers are knitted together into this beautiful, rustic broom and soaked in cinnamon. Now our entire family room smells amazing! I was thinking I might pick up one today to put in the trunk of our minivan!!

We have a Yankee Candle store in our local mall.
We smelled every holiday scent they had until we all agreed that Autumn Leaves was the best. Not too sweet...a little woodsy...with spicy cinnamon undertones. PERFECT!

All year long I plug in my favorite scents of the season. This Christmas we are using Harvest Spice, and Apple Cinnamon Medley in our home.

Don't forget to find a yummy smelling soap to put by each sink. My choice this year is Cinnamon Spice made by EO and purchased at Whole Foods.

Adding a scent to your home is an easy way to create a warm, welcoming environment. Hope this inspires you to find the things that makes home a wonderful place to be.

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A super easy dinner for a busy holiday month!
10 minutes of preparation...35 minutes to bake.
I forgot to take a picture of mine, but it looked something like this...

TAMALE PIE

1 lb. of ground beef or ground turkey
1 packet of taco seasoning mix
1 cup of corn (canned or frozen)
1 box of your favorite cornbread
2 cups of mild salsa

Preheat oven to 350.
Brown beef and add taco seasoning packet.
Add all of the salsa and the corn to the beef and stir well.
Put beef into a 9x9 pan.
In a bowl mix together the cornbread batter.
Pour cornbread batter over the beef.
Bake for 35 minutes or until the cornbread is firm.
I served it with fresh veggies, salsa & guacamole.

Will easily serve a family of 5 plus leftovers.
Enjoy

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Awards

2009-12-14T08:18:00.000-08:00

Holly at 504Main gave us the "You Give Bloggers A Good Name" award.

Pass this award on to ONE blogger

that you think is truly outstanding,

in both their writing/posting,

and their treatment of fans, commenters,

and fellow bloggers.

Crazy Dieting! & Awards Post!

2009-12-12T14:21:00.000-08:00

Why do we do this to ourselves? Tune in to hear some the crazy diets we have tried. Believe it or not, this is the short list! What crazy diet have you tried?

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Remember our movie club? We will be posting our "Blind Side" video in the coming week. So grab a friend and go out to see it. The movie is truly fabulous! You won't want to miss it!!
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Now it is time to hand out a few awards...

LMJ at I've Been Thinking gave us the Happy 101 Award. We love her honesty about her life, and her adorable little baby girl. Thanks LMJ!

We got this lovely award from iwonderwye. She is the real deal too. I love people that have some hardship under their belt, and from those experiences have gained a positive perspective on what life is really about. She lives from that place and is truly thankful. We love you and thank you!

So as I mentioned last week...in the name of holiday giving...we are offering the following blogs a shopping spree. Pick one of the awards you would most like to have above as a gift from us!

*La Vita e' Bella
*5thsister
*thisstopwilloughby
*raoulysgirl
*twohandsfullofdaisies
*tuscanysmagicalplaces
*edsfunnypages
*twonormalmoms
*thedailygrind
*middayescapades
*projecticansurvive
*faithimagined

We appreciate all of our readers so much. We realize you could spend your time on a thousand other things...so thank you for choosing to hang out with us. Have a terrific weekend!

Eye Candy...

2009-12-09T08:50:00.000-08:00

Welcome to our home for the holidays!

The reindeer and the wreath will be the first to greet you...

You've seen the tree...

In the kitchen we are always ready to bake...

We have many nativity scenes in our home. This is the only one the kids are not allowed to play with. Although, I found Andy trying to hang the baby Jesus from the Angel at the top. I nearly had a heart attack!

A close friend gave us this wooden set for a wedding gift. It was carved in Bethlehem. I'd tell you his name, but then I'd have to kill you since he is an FBI agent. tee hee:)

This one makes me happy, so it stays up all year long.

Many of the people and animals are missing body parts from years of play. Cracks me up that the kids still love it...

The Christmas cards go in this blue snowman bowl...

Found these little trees at target last year in the after Christmas sales. Bought a set for our family room, and one set for each of the kid's rooms. They love using it as their night light.

This built in nook was hard to photograph, but this is where I put all of the years of Santa photos.

On the dining room table are these festive contemporary trees, and a couple of adorable poinsettias sprinkled with glitter.

In the family room is Santa and his sleigh holding our stockings for the big day.

One of our first purchases as a couple was this funny woven deer we found in Lake Tahoe. At Christmas time he becomes Rudolph.

Here it is all pulled together.

In the living room more Christmas cheer...

These are our Advent trees filled with yummy goodies to help count down the days until Christmas.

A basket of Christmas books by the fireplace. Just add a warm blanket, a cup of cider, and a soft lap.

Elf On The Shelf is one of our favorite Christmas traditions. Every night he disappears to report to Santa our Christmas wishes, as well as, who was naughty and nice. Then he magically returns to our home and hides in a new location. The kids can't wait to get up each morning to see where he might be hiding!

Couldn't resist introducing you to our "living Christmas tree." Andy has a lot of Christmas spirit and spent the morning drawing, cutting, and taping ornaments to his carefully picked outfit of green and brown. Then we took our pup for a walk and he imagined he was in a parade and waved at all of the people driving by.

Is there anything more wonderful than seeing Christmas through the eyes of a child?

The Last Goodbye

2009-12-07T08:59:00.000-08:00

Thank you followers, readers, commenters for the time you spend with us each week. We appreciate all of your kind words, encouragement, and you make our blogging experience so fulfilling. Have a wonderful week!

Love, Holly & Charisse

Giving Bling Today...

2009-12-05T10:10:00.001-08:00

Erin at The Mother Load gave us this lovely new award for being a faithful reader. We love you Erin for your honesty, creativity, and faithful commenting.

Emily at I Can Survive gave us this Sugar Doll award. You are sweet as sugar Emily. It has been so fun getting to know you.

Polly at 5thsister gave us this awesome new award. Polly is fabulous at Haiku, encouraging others, and an absolutely terrific bloggy friend.

Who Has The Thyme sent us this beautiful Silver Shoe of Sincerity award...AND WE LOVE HER FOR IT!

This Awards show is going to be a little bit different than the others. We would love the following blogs to do a little holiday shopping for themselves. So look above and pick the award that you most want and then take it...no really it is free! Just our way of saying...Merry Christmas:)

*bonbonrose
*thebacksofmyeyelids
*504main
*the mother load
*stirfryawesomeness
*justbecausemypickkletalks
*mjlifeinterrupted
*From Misery To Happiness
*ineedmom
*westfamilyadventures
*letshaveacocktail
*cathyhasantsypants
*Steph in the city
*I've been thinking
*tattoosandteethingrings
*headacheshormonesandhotflashes

Just so you all know...I always have that feeling that I'm forgetting someone. In fact, I know I've failed to mention many blogs that I love. I'm in the process of checking off those I have and haven't given a shout out too. So, please don't have hurt feelings if I've missed you. Your day will come soon...because I love our readers! Happy Weekend.

Holly & Charisse

Let It All Begin...

2009-12-03T07:26:00.001-08:00

Off we go into the woods...

Reindeer prancing about...

Looking for the perfect tree...

Moments of genuine affection not always seen...

A beautiful pine the same age as my middle child...

Let the decorating begin...

They each have their favorite ones...

A mother's touch here and there...

On tippy toes they put the angel on the tree...

No longer need their Papa to lift them up...(sigh)

It's past their bedtime, with no regrets,
just more memories to add to an already wonderful life...

Once again we feel blessed!
Merry Christmas 2009

A Mortuary Moment

2009-12-01T09:54:00.001-08:00

Happy Tuesday Everyone! If you were born in the 60's or early 70's you will relate to the lifestyle and beliefs of the women that make up The Wednesday Sisters by Meg Waite Clayton. I had forgotten so many things from that era, and reading this book left me feeling horrified, in stitches, and proud to have emerged into a generation where women can have dreams and see them to fruition. The themes of friendship and opportunity and passion come together to make a wonderful quick read and fun vlog discussion. Hope you enjoy...

We would love to hear from you...so please leave a Comment! If you would like to purchase this book for yourself or as a Christmas gift for a friend, I have it in the right column in our Amazon book widget. Have a wonderful day!

Did You Miss Us?

2009-11-30T09:35:00.000-08:00

Weeeee're Baaaaack! Well sort of back anyway. I have at least 3 hours of vlog to edit, and today is my first day back at blog-work. So, I thought I would dig in the archives for something short and sweet that we haven't posted yet. You can tell it is old because I am still blonde. Tee hee! Hope it puts a little chuckle in your day.

Hope you had a marvelous Thanksgiving...and missed us terribly! We missed you. Hopefully today I'll get the bags unpacked, the groceries purchased, and edit a ton of video. Hmmm...that might be a tad ambitious.

Don't forget to leave a Comment. Have a terrific day blog friends!

Happy Monday...Let's Chat!

2009-11-23T07:05:00.000-08:00

Hello Loyal Bloggy Friends! This is going to be a crazy week isn't it. Our kids are out of school and both of us are heading out of town for the holiday. So, forgive our small number of posts, and even smaller number of comments on all of your great blogs. By next week we will be back on track...Fo Sho! In the meantime...enjoy this vlog we put together when we were guests on Midday Escapades last week. We had a great time making it...hope you have an even better time watching it. Cheers and Happy Thanksgiving!

Let us know you came by...leave a Comment!

Sunday Awards & Theta Tag!

2009-11-22T14:17:00.001-08:00

Holly at 504main gave us this super chic award. We think your blog is super fabulous too Holly! Love the name by the way:) We would love to pass this on to the following fabulishous blogs...
*twenty-firstcenturyhousewife
*38andgrowing

As always...you have official permission from us not to follow any rules unless you secretly long too. That said...

-Share 5 things that you are obsessed with
-Pass the award along to 5 of the most fabulous blogs you read.

Rook No. 17 gave us

The rule to this award is simple: (Only if you desire...my rules!) "Pass on the award to 10 other people while notifying and prompting them to do the same."

*504main
*crosscountrylove
*iwonderwye

What Makes Me a Theta Mom --- I've been tagged!

Three friends...Erin at The Mother Load & Tattoos And Teething Rings & 38 And Growing

tagged us this week in the Theta Mom challenge (Theta = The True, Authentic Mom). If you are tagged you must list five things that make you a true, authentic mom, and then pass along the tag to five other deserving moms.

*Saying Sorry - With my kids I have to step back a lot...look at how I handle any given situation...and access if it's my turn to say sorry. Many times it is.

*I Don't Want To Play - Every time my kids ask me if I want to play something with them...on my face I'm smiling but on the inside my answer is always NO! When I do play...I never regret it.

*Allowing Them To Fail - I tend to rescue...but as my kids get older I'm working hard at letting them face the music at school, at home with chores/behavior, with their peers. I have to let go of wondering how their failures might make me look...and let them learn their lessons.

*Say Yes More Than No - It is a rule I try to live by...unless of course their well-being is at stake.

*Worrying About What Could Be...Someday! - A wise mom told me..."Don't look today for the adult your child will grow up to be." I guess what that meant to me was that I could let go of the worries of today trusting that there will be enough time to work on the character that would most matter in the future. Lord knows...I am not the perfect example they need to follow. So, I cling to that...and PRAY A LOT!

If you choose to obey the rules...Kudos! If not...you are absolved of any guilt. The five blogs I would like to tag are...
*stilettos and ink
*warm chocolate milk
*cross country love
*hurstburst
*matty's thoughts (yup...authentic daddy parenting is super important too!)

Holly and Charisse say...if you leave a Comment...good Karma is coming your way!

Are Your Traditions Making YOU Happy?

2009-11-20T06:49:00.001-08:00

I think traditions start because we want our kids to have moments to remember. Something we do every year, so that we will feel connected as a family. We have a couple of traditions that I love.

*In October we go to our favorite pumpkin patch to walk the hay maze, pick the pumpkins, go home and carve them.

*In December we head up into the woods to cut down our Christmas tree together. Now the kids can carry the tree to the car all by themselves. Times have changed! When we get home I string the lights, and the kids decorate it. Then we have hot cider and read our favorite Christmas books by the fire.

(We found the perfect tree!)

*Every night when I put the kids to bed I put scented lotion on their arms and pillow. It started one night when my son said he loved how I smelled. That night, 5 years ago, a tradition was born that all three kids love. A little bit of Mama before they close their eyes and go to sleep.

In the past, traditions drove me to...perfectionism. I wanted the next time to be just as fabulous as the time previous...and it usually wasn't. Then I felt angry that I put all that effort into something, and theeeeeeeey didn't appreciate it the way I wanted them to. Heck...I couldn't enjoy it either because I was so exhausted.

What our kids really enjoy is experiencing new things. If we tried to recreate a moment from the previous year, it was sure to fall short of our expectations. So, that's when I let go of finding life long traditions. During the year as moments present themselves I find easy ways to celebrate them. No big wind up, no weeks of planning, just spontaneous, simple fun. I think the kids like having a mommy that isn't stressed out by the "great time" we are trying to have!

Now, when I'm getting ready to do something special for my family I ask myself if I'm enjoying the preparation and the anticipated outcome. If the answer is no...I switch gears...simplify...and go about my work so much more joyfully.

I'm giving you permission today to think about the traditions that you put so much of your energy into during the year. Does it make YOU happy? Does it rob you or fill you with joy as you are creating the moment? Is it really that meaningful to them, or is it just expected? Is it time to try something new? Whatever the answer is for you and your family...I hope this post affirms your efforts, or bring clarity to help you build an even stronger bond with your loved ones.

Have a great day! Leave a Comment. Follow us...you know you want to! Tell a Friend.

Valuing Friendship

2009-11-18T06:42:00.000-08:00

Healthy friendships are so important because we all long to be known. We can't and shouldn't depend on our spouse to be our only source of comfort and care. Friendships add a richness to our lives as we share everything from our hurts to our humor. Here Charisse and I discuss what we look for in a great friendship.

Thanks Lynn at Midday Escapades we loved being your guest yesterday!
Wanted to do a "shout out" also to a few other friends we love. Go visit them...
*Pink Flip Flops & Wine & Tater Tot Mom & I Wait For That Day

We can't hear you...so leave a Comment!
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Tell a friend to come on over and hang out!

Celebrating You Today...

2009-11-16T06:50:00.001-08:00

Did you need to hear that?
Because it's true!
Everyday you dare to share a piece of yourself with each of us.
Many may ask you why...but we never will...because we understand!
We want you to know that we go to your blog because we love what you do.

You...
share your heart
make us laugh
inspire us to be more
make us think
create amazing things
write like it's your job...and it could be!

We see the ways you love your family.
We read about the many ways that they drive you crazy!
You show us books to read, recipes to cook, and glimpses of your unique life.

Have you ever felt so supported, so validated, so heard, so encouraged?
How many people come to your blog every week to read your words?
You are amazing!
So, today you have a place of honor at our table because...YOU ARE SPECIAL!

Have you ever used a "You Are Special" plate in your home?

Many of us have it, and if you don't...no need to buy one. You could put a candle in front of the recipients plate, or a beautiful wine glass for their milk, a small vase filled with a few flowers from the yard...you get the picture. We used to put out the plate when one of the kids achieved something really special, but now we use it in a different way. We put it out to applaud effort. He stuck with the long hours it took to study for a test. She shows compassion for a sibling instead of reacting impulsively. He offered to do her chore when he saw she was struggling to get her homework done.

My friend Shelly told me that she puts it out once in awhile just to say I Love You. Happily I adopted that method as well! On those nights we go around the table each saying a couple of things we love about that person. It only takes a few minutes, but means so much. Don't forget to put it out for Dad...or even for yourself. We all deserve to hear the words that remind us that what we do everyday means something.

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Bling, Bling, Bling...Sunday!

2009-11-15T07:02:00.000-08:00

Lee at Headaches, Hormones & Hotflashes and
Cynthia at Running With Letters gave us the Super Scribbler Award. We proudly accept and pass this on to a few of our friends. The award goes to...

*tiffany-on the verge
*the extraordinary ordinary
*climb reach achieve

Thanks to In My Mind It Is Funny we've been given the...

In my world...you only have to follow the rules on these awards if you feel like it. That said...we give this award to a couple of our newer bloggy friends...

*conquer the monkey
*hurstburst

7 Things About Me You Might Not Know...by Holly
*I'm the youngest of four children.
*I can burp on command.
*I'm 5 feet tall. Don't I look taller on tv?
*I've been married for 18 years.
*Hubby and I traveled/backpacked around the world for 4 months before we had kids.
*The only food I don't like are organ meats. Everything else I love.
*I love all of the scariest, fastest rides at amusement parks. But swinging on the swings at the park makes me nauseous...go figure!

Kreativ Blogger Rules:
Directions if you have been tagged!!
1-Thank the person who nominated you for this award.
2-Copy the logo and place it on your blog.
3-Link to the person who nominated you for this award.
4-Name 7 things about yourself that people may not know.
5-Nominate 7 Kreativ Bloggers.
6-Post links to the 7 blogs you nominate.
7-Leave a comment on each of the blogs letting them know they've been nominated.

Have a wonderful week everyone!

Great Clips

2009-11-13T06:50:00.001-08:00

Sometimes we have to do a lot of editing to get our point across. Often there are really fun moments left on the cutting room floor. Here are a few of those clips...put together...to bring a little laughter into your day. Make sure you watch it to the end...to meet the newest members of our family. Hint, hint...they are furry and cute!

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The Truth Is...

2009-11-11T08:04:00.001-08:00

The truth is...I spend time thinking about what is hard in my life, with no real perspective on what hardship really looks like.

The truth is...I convince myself that helping those in need a couple of times a year is enough, even though I have so much more that I could give.

The truth is...no matter how many things I buy, I will never be satisfied.

The truth is...I have never really been hungry or cold or alone. Sometimes I see a person on the street, and I tell myself stories of how they got there. Stories that make ME feel better about ignoring them. Their needs...so immense...that I feel afraid of the sacrifice it would require.

The truth is... I know there are kids not more than a mile away that don't have enough to eat everyday or enough volunteers at their school and yet I find reasons not to contribute.

The truth is...right now all around the world there are people living without ANY hope. They endure unfathomable mental and physical pain. They have no medical help and no education. They desperately want to take care of their families, but are unable to rise above their circumstances. They are far away, and so I pretend they don't exist.

The truth is...I don't want to continue living my life like this anymore.

From time to time I have to put on my rubber gloves, get down on my hands and knees, and deep clean my soul. Today, I'm looking at my privileged life. I can afford the things we need, and most of the things we want. The plans I had as a little girl to find a wonderful husband and be a mommy at home with my kids all came true. I have time to think, workout, be creative, see friends, and plan for the future. In my comfortable life, with my blinders on, I can live in a world that doesn't expect anything of me. The sacrifice...is personal growth! Because, God works best in me when I am out of my comfort zone. He longs to wake me up, teach me how to see the world through His eyes, wrestle with the injustice and sadness, and take action. That's a tall order...am I willing to give him that?

I guess this is a good time of year to "clean house" so to speak. I'm looking to approach this season with a renewed mind. I want to honor my faith and celebrate the people in my life...not charge headlong into senseless spending and ridiculous schedules. This year I'm shopping for treasures made by beautiful people with hardworking hands that long to change their circumstances. I'm dipping my big toe into the waters of compassion. Maybe someday I'll have a story to tell about the day I took a risk and dove in.

-Trade As One

-Heavenly Treasures
"Our mission is to serve together with others worldwide to support the Christian micro enterprise network through product and project development, market placement and distribution. Heavenly Treasures partners with others to help the poor through Livelihood Projects. Get Involved!"

If this interests you...click on the links I've provided and shop their online stores.
We've purchased gifts from both organizations in past years, and have always been impressed with the quality.

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Kids Are Funny!

2009-11-10T06:38:00.001-08:00

The school year has just begun, and yet we are already chock full of stories. Grab your latte, pull up a chair, put up your feet, and get ready to laugh. Cuzzzz....Kids Are Funny!

Sending our love and admiration today to a couple of great blog friends. They are faithful, funny, insightful, and Fab commenters. Giddy Up on over to...
Erin at The Mother Load
Daffy at Batcrap Crazy

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That's How We Roll...

2009-11-09T06:48:00.001-08:00

Donna at Obnoxious SAHM asked us if we would be a guest blogger. So, Charisse and I went to work creating something special just for her. A few minutes of friendship & fun...Holly & Charisse style.

So, have you been over to Lee's place at Headaches Hormones and Hotflashes? If you haven't...grab some dry underwear and go there now! She is tops when it comes to blog friends...We Love Her...You'll Love Her Too!

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Bling Sunday!

2009-11-08T07:31:00.000-08:00

What! For little ole us? This is going to look so awesome in our trophy slideshow. This came from MJ at Dirty Little Confessions. She tells it like it is. Never fake...always real...which makes her very sincere. I can see how she earned this award. We proudly accept this honor and pass it on to the following blogs.
*My Best Day Ever
*I Wonder Wye

Bibi from findingthepotofgold is totally Superior in a really awesome way...and gave us the Superior Scribbler Award! We LOVE scribbling...so we will humbly accept.

If you want to follow the rules they are listed below. Sometimes I do...sometimes I don't. We will love you either way...no pressure here! We pass this award on to...

*crazylittlething-calledlife
*everydayingray

1. Each Superior Scribbler I name today must in turn pass The Award on to 5 most-deserving bloggy friends.
2. Each Superior Scribbler must link to the author & the name of the blog from whom he/she has received The Award.
3. Each Superior Scribbler must display The Award on his/her blog.
4. Each Superior Scribbler must post these rules on his/her blog.

Many, many thanks to Tami at Every Day In Gray who gave us the... We think she is tops & very friendly indeed! Other favorite friends that we love and want to pass this on to include...
*tatertotmom

April at Crazy Little Thing Called Life gave us the
She is a new...and super faithful blog friend. We pass this on to...
*raoulysgirl

I really want to say thank you to all of the people out there who follow us faithfully. So many of you already possess all of these awards. You know who you are...I know who you are...and I appreciate you. I plan on thanking one or two of you every day with my posts this week. It's because of you that any of this is fun at all! Love you so...Holly & Charisse

Good Enough...Can Be Great!

2009-11-06T06:45:00.000-08:00

Why did I say that?

I forgot to show up for your school performance?
You're in the principal's office again...what did I do wrong?
Here I go...I can feel it coming...I'm screaming again!

Mother's guilt! If you didn't feel like a failure from time to time you wouldn't be normal. We do make mistakes...terrible ones sometimes...no mother is exempt! We are flawed and our kids will be too. We walk through this stuff with our children, sometimes handling it right, sometimes getting it wrong. Then there are those times that we get stuck mulling over where we went wrong...and it paralyzes us?
If that is where you are today as you read this...I just want to encourage you. I think we imagine that mothers everywhere are doing their job perfectly, and we couldn't be more wrong! I remember someone telling me once that "we compare our insides with other peoples outsides." In other words...we know our mistakes, our inadequacies, and it makes us feel like a pile of doo doo. We take that knowledge and then compare ourselves to someone else who looks all put together. Guess what? Inside she feels like doo doo too!

So let's make a pledge...hold up your right hand...I'm waiting...ok, repeat after me...I promise to imagine that every woman I come in contact with today feels like a steaming pile of doo doo. I will not compare my crap to her crap. I will instead look at her with kindness, think about her desire to do right by her family, and know that like me...she will come up short. Because, that is the truth!
We run our lives like a sprint...manic and determined...as if every moment is critical. In actuality it's a marathon. The experience is accumulative. I think our job is to be "good enough" parents every day. Good enough parenting is intentional, thoughtful, and loving...it is not an excuse to screw up. It is realistic, knowing that we will all make mistakes even with the best intentions, and gives us space to be a person with many dimensions. Perfect parenting is really overrated and a completely impossible goal! If I'm aiming for perfection, I'll live the rest of my life overwhelmed with guilt. Guilt is not a positive motivator...LOVE IS! So start with loving yourself a little more. Take a look at your mistakes, learn from them, let go of the past, and work on your "good enough" strategy for today.

A couple of final thoughts on this that I find helpful...
*Find a trusted friend (or your husband if that works for you) who watches you interact with your children, and who will also tell you the truth. Then confide in her where you feel you fall short. Ask her to help you brainstorm ways to get past the trouble spots you encounter. With a plan to fall back on you will feel more in control.
*If you pray...DO IT! Pray alone. Pray with your kids about areas they need to grow...and areas you need to grow to be a better mommy/daddy. It helps them to see this as a team effort...not just you vs. them.
*Meet with each child privately (once in awhile) to talk about how it feels for them to be in your family. Ask if they have struggles or need something specific from you. If they have a challenging behavior, this could be a good neutral time to ask them to help you know how to respond or avoid getting to that difficult place.

Movies, Girlfriends, Laughter & Kotex

2009-11-05T07:05:00.001-08:00

Do you have any ideas about what this video could possibly be about? It's fun ladies & gentlemen...it's fun!

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Someone's Child...

2009-11-04T06:40:00.001-08:00

I watched my six year old son hug a homeless man. I told the kids to say goodnight, and Andy instinctually ran to give his new friend a hug around the leg. His friend grinned and then said, "wait", and slowly sits in a chair...reaches out...and closes his eyes taking in the full embrace of my sweet child. It is long and tender. The funny thing is that Andy doesn't ever give long hugs...but somehow deep down he knows.
As we walked through the doors we greeted friends that were serving the evening meal. People we know...people we already love. Even though it is 7:30pm on a school night I brought my 11 year old daughter, and my 6 year old son. My husband stayed home with our sick 9 year old boy. We've done this project several times, and they're both sad because they know what they're missing. We probably won't get home until after 10pm, but it is a sacrifice I don't even think twice about because each time we do it...it changes all of our hearts.

We grab a plate of food and look for a table without volunteers so that we can spend as much time as possible loving these strangers. If I were walking in their shoes, I probably wouldn't try to make eye contact either. It's hard, even for them, to accept what's given. They know they haven't earned it. They know they have nothing to give in return. I'm sure they question our motives. "Are they judging us...our decisions...our circumstances? Can they tell if we are unclean, will it repel them? Will they think we aren't intelligent? Will they be afraid? Do they assume we are on drugs or drink? Without first earning our trust, will they expect us to tell them our story?"
I introduce the kids to Robb and Paul. Robb is disheveled...but thoughtful...slow to speak...and kind. Paul is tidy...but a little manic...hard to talk to. None of us knows where to start. They talk about articles they read during the day. Hannah seems a little uncomfortable around Paul, but at peace with Robb. When it seems like everyone is almost done eating Andy asks to play Jenga. I try to bring along things to bridge the gap. Things that make everyone feel normal...at ease.

One year when the kids were really little I brought paper and markers. After dinner I watched as six homeless people lay on the ground with my kids coloring and drawing. Everyone had smiles on their faces as they chatted away. I didn't intrude. I didn't want to break the magic. I just watched. My kids asked me that night as we headed home, "Where were the homeless people?" I fought back tears as I tried to explain how God used them that night to help heal the hearts of troubled, lonely people.
Paul was working the room. He doesn't sit still for long. As we play Jenga Andy is the supreme host. He passionately includes Robb. Everyone loves Andy because of his ability to do this. He never meets a stranger, and he genuinely loves everyone. Before Robb makes a move, Andy teases him, "No not that one...the tower will fall!" Robb grins and does as he pleases. Andy laughs and makes a big deal over how good Robb is at this game!

Hannah and I leave Andy and Robb to chat and build things out of the fallen wooden blocks. Our time is almost done, and I want to meet more people. We find another table with a white woman in her 50's and a young Hispanic man in his 30's. They've bonded on the streets, and take care of each other. Hannah is an avid soccer fan and quickly prods Santos into a conversation about the sport. He dramatically talks about his favorite teams, and playing ball when he was a kid. Two sticks at each end of his yard were the goals. All afternoon everyday he and his friends would play. Hannah is riveted, and regrets that we don't have time to go outside and kick the ball with him. We have to come back Mom...we have to!

I'm chatting with the woman, and since I'm bad with names, I've already forgotten. I feel guilty for this. She lives her life nameless...and now I've forgotten too. She tells me how before she met Santos she was attacked many times on the streets. She lost her job a few years back. Didn't have much saved. Traveled to another state to try to start over. Money gone...car goes next...now she lives hand out to hand out. She wants to believe that maybe because of her strong faith, God put her on the streets and is using her to reach out to other homeless people. She clings to that belief. "Every time I have a need...it is met. God has been faithful...but it's hard," she says.

We clean up and watch them make their palates on the floor. They feel more comfortable with us now, and each face beams with thankfulness. They ask us to come back...we say, "We'll try."

The kids and I get in the car and start our drive home. Hannah says, "Mom, Paul was strange and there were moments I felt uncomfortable there, but I'm so glad we went." I told her, "Whenever I'm in a situation like that I tell myself...this is someone's child.

A mom gave birth to this person, had dreams for this baby. I imagine that each person there is really you. My baby lost in the world...no home. If I were in heaven, and you were in those circumstances, I would want someone to love you not out of pity, but because human beings need to be loved." The car was dark, but I could see her shoulders shaking and the tears glistening on her cheeks. I reached out and took her hand, and it was silent the rest of the way home.

I tucked Hannah and Andy in bed that night, and Hannah reached out for a hug and pleaded with me, "Please Mom...we have to go back."

"My father has blessed you! Come and receive the kingdom that was prepared for you before the world was created. When I was hungry, you gave me something to eat, and when I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink. When I was a stranger, you welcomed me, and when I was naked, you gave me clothes to wear. When I was sick, you took care of me, and when I was in jail, you visited me." Then the ones who pleased the Lord will ask, "When did we give you something to eat or drink? When did we welcome you as a stranger or give you clothes to wear or visit you while you were sick or in jail?" The king will answer, "Whenever you did it for any of my people, no matter how unimportant they seemed, you did it for me." Matthew 25:34-40

*Our church hosts a group of homeless people for one month every year. It is a part of a program called Hotel De Zink run through an organization called InnVision. For more information click here http://mppc.org/calendar/hotel-de-zink.

Nit Pickin'

2009-11-02T14:02:00.000-08:00

It's a dirty job but someone has to do it! One of Charisse's kids has the dirty little creatures. Being the good friend that I am...I dove in to make sure she is critter free. Giggles abound!

If you just can't get enough of this topic...here's the practical stuff. Helpful tips on how to clean house and children of all nasty nits.

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Halloween Fun...

2009-11-02T06:38:00.001-08:00

The two most exciting days of the year in my childhood were Halloween and Christmas morning!

Charisse's son Luke and my son Ben.
They love to dress up during their playdates.
Imagine the battles they will have all year wearing these outfits!

Andy, Hannah, & Charisse's daughter Sophia.

We got a puppy over the summer, so Hannah wanted to be Dorothy.
Ben found this Narnia costume and freaked out.
Andy wanted to be a bat or a bunny. The bunny was $19. Easy decision!

2 1/2 hours of Trick or Treating.
Stopped counting around 100 pieces of candy.
Sorting, Trading, Parental Tax (aka...give us our share!)
Kids passed out after the sugar low hit around 10pm.
We had a great time...

Then just when I thought I'd get a peaceful nights sleep...
The dog woke up three times clawing at his crate needing to barf and poop!
Ben woke up at 5am feeling sick.
I think we might be taking a cruise on the swiney river.
Andy woke at 6am with a bad dream.

Mommy woke up at 7:30am VERY CRANKY from being up all night.
I guess Halloween continues to be a spooky, unpredictable evening!

Sunday Bling!

2009-11-01T08:59:00.001-08:00

Happy Sunday Everyone!

This has been a terrific week of blog reading. We have so enjoyed reading your posts, hearing your ideas, laughing at your rants on various topics, being a part of your bloggy life.

**First I want to do a SHOUT OUT to Obnoxious SAHM for having us as her guest blogger on Sunday. You are a great blogger and commenter Donna. Thanks for the great advice via e-mail this week. You're a jewel! We put together a special video just for her. I'm sure it will appear sometime this week on our blog as well. I think you call that a "Two-Fer".

It has also been a great week to share the Love. First up is...

Erin at The Mother Load gave us the Heartfelt Award! We love you Erin. You've been with us since the beginning, and so encouraging every step of the way. If you don't know Erin let me be the first to say she is a faithful blog friend! So head on over there and check her out.
We would like to pass this award on to...
*PJ
*Tiffany at ontheverge
*tropicalmum

Lynn at Midday Escapades & Holly at 504 Main gave us this super cool Friendly Blogger Award. We visit both of them everyday...and we think YOU SHOULD TOO!
LET'S HEAR IT FOR THE BOYS! It makes me happy to have a male audience. Their comments come from a totally different angle, and tickle me. Thanks guys...aren't you glad I didn't give you the award above? I'm good like that!
*edsfunnypages
*Scoman
*mattythoughts

Holly at 504 Main also gave us this award. Gosh you are just too sweet. We love you too!

The Friends Award we pass on to...
*ourblife
*justbecausemypickletalks
*readyset40

***PJ (listed above) asked me to pass this on to all of you.

She's hosting a giveaway to kick-off the holiday shopping season. The prize is a $75 gift certificate to Amazon.com. The shopping possibilities are endless! The contest will be posted on her blog Tuesday morning, November 3^rd.

Looking forward to another great week together. In case someone out there felt a little left out. Let me reassure you that if I read you...I think you are the bomb! I have too much to do to waste my time reading stinky posts. So, if you secretly covet one of the awards above...please, please take it and know it comes with all of our love. Have a great week everyone!

Birthday Madness

2009-10-30T06:18:00.001-07:00

This year my youngest child turned 6. I decided to invite his whole kindergarten class to walk home with me after school for a fun backyard birthday.

(Yes...he loves Hello Kitty!)

On the menu was 140 chicken nuggets (all devoured), a veggie platter (barely touched), plain pasta, pineapple, lemonade, and enormous Costco cupcakes. We put together our homemade waterslide invented 3 years ago when we endured a week of 105 degree temperatures. Almost no one in Northern California has air conditioning! Our play structure slide with two twin blow-up mattresses stuck end to end under it, and a hose at the top creates the perfect redneck waterslide.

We also rented a jumpy house that said Happy Easter, because Andy loved the bunnies on it. After helping to change 20 children into their swimsuits (no easy task), the party began. A few moms graciously offered to hang out, chat and watch kids. I should have paid them! As kids grew tired they played Legos and drew pictures. My son had a terrific time hanging out with his friends.

Some of the improvements I'm considering for next year includes handing out tubes of frosting to consume instead of cupcakes. I probably threw out 17 cupcakes even though each child acted like it was life or death whether they got chocolate or vanilla. Almost every kid scraped the frosting off with their hands and ate it, or licked it off. Why not just comply with their instincts...Easy...NO Cake!

(Andy made these cupcakes over the Summer. So cute...he should blog!)

An hour into the party a couple of kids asked if there was anything else to do? I resisted the urge to tell them, "Are you kidding? When I was a kid we had family birthday parties. You had a family dinner, ate cake, maybe played a round of pin the tail on the donkey, and opened 1-2 gifts." I didn't know any other kind of party existed. I thought it was perfect.
It is different now. More fun in some ways I admit. One of the first "kid parties" I took Hannah to included snow trucked in and dumped in the front yard for kids to sled on. Many parties now have special guests like Darth Vadar or Snow White, pony rides, face painters, or animal farms brought to your home. If you can dream it...it most likely exists. As for goodie bags...they are a popular invention of this decade. The kids love them, and now expect them. My theory is this...only buy them if you love them too. Some parents do! I don't! I handed out blow pops as the kids left and they seemed perfectly happy.

Isn't it entertaining to consider how times have changed? What I really want my child to know is that celebrating this special day marks a moment in my life when a new capacity for love was permanently engraved on my heart. A love so precious, tender, and undeniable that it forever changed who I am. Everyone deserves to be celebrated at least one day a year!

Tame The Lion

2009-10-29T07:05:00.001-07:00

La, la, la, la, la, la, la (with fingers in ears) . We don't really want to know about our parent's extracurricular activities...do we?! It's possible to run across things we just can't pretend we didn't see. Charisse shares with us one of those memories for her. Giggles guaranteed!

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Scenes From The Season...

2009-10-28T07:03:00.001-07:00

Glimpses of Fall...

Outside our home...

Hagdalena Magdalena Hoopensteiner Walendiner Hogan Bogan Logan was her name...
Funny song Andy learned in Kindergarden.
He made a picture of her and we taped it to our front door.

The pumpkin I chose was called a princess pumpkin.
It just made me happy!

Inside Our Home...

Things the kids made in years past...

laminated and used every year.

Fun to remember!

Just little touches here and there...

Autumn Festival Yankee Candle...MMM
Now sold at Target.

This display I keep out all year.

Bought these pumpkin candle holders years ago at Restoration Hardware...

Autumn leaves purchased at Target too!
Love that store...

Buying honey at a roadside stand.

Andy's favorite!

Off to the pumpkin patch...

If you could feel sad at this place...you need prozac!

I have them all well trained.

I'm a picture junkie...

Years ago...

Now...

Looking for the perfect pumpkin...

Sword fighting demonstration at the pumpkin patch!

What fun!!

The perfect lunch...pumpkin pie, lattes, and hot chocolate...

Time to go home and make the Jack-O-Lanterns...

A true artist...

He doesn't like to touch the pumpkin guts...

The kids worked together to build this cute haunted house from a kit...

Hannah, Ben, and Andy's creations come to life!

Boo!

I Can't Hear You!

2009-10-27T06:12:00.001-07:00

Every mom on the planet has wished for an escape from the noise.

One day my mom was visiting, and she got tired of the chaos and decided to turn off her hearing aids. She commented to me, after I had shouted her name 3 times in close range, that she felt like she could have used the same easy access to silence when she was a young mom. Just like that it hit me! I wasn’t deaf but I could turn down the sound. I ran into our bedroom and pulled out a set of earplugs from a stash my husband uses on business trips. I put them in and walked around the house. It was a miracle! I could see everything and know everyone was safe, but the annoying whining/petty arguments/Barney songs/whatever...it just disappeared.

I warn the kids when I have them in so if something serious happens they can come tap me. I even carry a pair in my purse. It’s great if you want to read while at a child’s after school activity, or need to wait in the car and the kids are happily/noisily playing in the back. We all know there are “times in the month” when we are short on patience…yet another opportunity to tune out what might be driving you crazy. It is so easy to do, inexpensive to buy, and could save you from having your own childish outburst. You don't have to be 70 to enjoy some well deserved silence. Give it a try!

We're Smooth

2009-10-26T07:30:00.001-07:00

Our first cooking demonstration...in costume no less! Hope you get a big belly laugh, and maybe an idea or two as we share with you how to make healthy smoothies for your family.

Happy Monday everyone. Leave a comment, become a Follower, tell a friend.

The Awards Go To...

2009-10-25T08:02:00.001-07:00

Love is in the air...Every sight and every sound...Love is in the air...la la la

Thank you friends for an amazing week of reading, laughing, crying and cheering. It makes me feel so proud to be a part of this community. You all amaze me everyday!

The first award came from stirfryawesomeness. She's fabulous and snarky! Her brain works in ways that astound me...and I just hope if I keep stalking her one day I'll grow up to be her twin. Weird I know...anyhoo...thank you so much kys...you make this blogosphere a better place.
We bestow this award on the following fabulous blog.
*leohaven

MJ at dirtylilconfessions gave us this totally super cool, slightly psychedelic, friends award. How awesome is that? Super Awesome! We love being her friend...and darn it...you should be her friend too!

In honor of MJ and her blogolicious fabulousness we give this award to...
*tattoosandteethingrings
*theobnoxioussahm

Accolades to tattoosandteethingrings for giving us the next award. Her blog design is totally unique and so hot! Love it. Also love her posts and great comments. Go over and give her some love.

We think Sissi is Over The Top in the best possible way. Go enjoy her terrific blog.
*stilettosandink

Stephanie in the City gave us
We read her blog everyday...AND LOVE IT! We happily pass this award on to:
*iwonderwye
*peelinganorangewithascrewdriver

Thanks again to Willoughby, Midday Escapades, and Hillbilly Duhn for highlighting our blog on your websites during the last week. We appreciate the shout outs and the great sense of community that you lovingly encourage.

Looking forward to a great week with y'all. Love...Holly & Charisse

Like A Mouse In A Maze

2009-10-23T06:05:00.000-07:00

A recent shopping trip has Charisse up in arms. Come see why?

Happy Friday fellow blogsters! Leave a comment, Follow us, tell a friend!

Bring Back The Monocle

2009-10-22T06:04:00.001-07:00

You know you're curious. You mean...you've never chatted with your girlfriends about this topic before? Take off your coat, grab a latte and stay tuned for lots of laughs!

Have a wonderful day...we're so glad you came. Leave a comment! Follow us...won't you please! If coming here makes your day a little brighter...Tell a Friend!

When I'm A Golden Girl

2009-10-21T06:37:00.000-07:00

I have this idea called "The Old Age Diary." All of my friends have heard me refer to it. The concept is simple. Create a book, listing what kind of person I want to be when I am in my Golden Years. Here is a snapshot of what mine looks like...

1. Any trip to the bathroom should take minutes, not hours. It is NOT a field trip for heavens sake!
2. Routines are great. Break them often to make life more interesting.
3. Make myself valuable. Volunteer at the local school/library/church, go new places, take a city class, get a personal trainer, try to do one new thing every week.
4. Create a hand signal for my friends and family to use when I'm repeating a story like I've never told it before. Don't get mad or defensive, just laugh it off!
5. If someone or something made me mad and I'm still talking about it with venom a year later, decide to let it go...or get therapy.
6. I am not too old to learn new technology...it could make me feel more connected to the world and people I love.
7. Family and friends won't tell me what is really going on in their lives if I go into worry/fret mode. Worry is just another expression of fear, and they don't need MORE of that. Pray for them, encourage them, and ask if I can help.
8. Buy a new pair of "HOT" jeans...just because I can. Work it girl!
9. While I'm at it...buy some beautiful bras and panties. No grannies for this granny!
10. Call family and friends regularly. Speak less, listen more, ask questions, always leave them with encouragement.
11. Walk in the rain, stomp in puddles, explore, get messy, roll in the grass, play.
12. Allow people I trust into my life that will tell me the truth, and then really listen to them!
13. Refuse to live in fear. Jesus said "fear not" 365 times in the Bible...one for each day!
14. Don't deny that it is time to use a cane, get hearing aids, or ask for help.
15. Allow more positive then negative words to exit my mouth.
16. Don't sit at home alone waiting for the world to come to me and make me happy. Get out there and find a place where I can interact with people and belong.
17. Laugh like it's my job...everyday!

I want to live each day of my life believing I have something to offer the world, engaging my mind, body, and spirit. My kids sometimes ask me, "When will I die?" My answer is always, "God has a long to-do list for each person in this world. When that list has been completed He says Well Done and rewards you with Heaven." Until the day that I meet God face to face, I believe He has a purpose for my life, and my to-do list is not finished. This means that He believes my life has meaning every day that I am on this earth regardless of my age. I choose to thank Him for every breath by giving, loving, serving, and showing others the joy He has put into my heart.

What would your "Old Age Diary" look like?

In The Beginning...

2009-10-20T07:01:00.000-07:00

We started taping our conversations back in January 2009 as a test to see if we were crazy, or if there was something entertaining there that we could use. Here is a sampling of our hilarious first moments together trying to figure things out. Enjoy!

*Wanted to send a huge THANK YOU to Hillbilly Duhn for making us her Follower of the week. It warms our hearts to get a shout out from such a fabulous blog. If you don't know her, get over there now! Seriously, stop picking your nose, wipe off your blogger-finger, and click on the link above. She cracks us up...and she loves anything "glow-in-the-dark". Our kind of gal...tee hee.

**Now, are you back from Hillbilly's blog?!
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Butterflies

2009-10-19T07:07:00.001-07:00

How is it that at 41 I'm already starting to develop the mentality that I'm too old to do certain things? Three years ago I was in Hawaii with my family and this wonderful woman, probably in her late sixties, came by our in-law's home to drop something off. In conversation with her I learned that she had recently started learning to surf. SURFING! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? There was a twinkle in her eye and she looked so alive.

I saw in her a former me that was now knee deep in motherhood. So busy keeping little people safe that there wasn't time to unearth the part of me that was always looking for an adventure. A longing began to grip me.

Fast forward one year later. It's my 40th birthday celebration and 6 friends have flown to Maui to join me. I've never, in 10 years, left my family for an entire week! One morning we wake up, take in large quantities of Kaanapali coffee, watch the ocean for signs of whale pods, and someone suggests that we go surfing! I feel a swarm of bees, not gentle butterflies, in my stomach. There was an exuberance among these treasured friends that I had never seen, and we all basked in the excitement of taking part in something new, a little dangerous, certainly outside our comfort zone. We screamed and cheered for each other as one by one each woman successfully stood on their board and rode the wave.

If you are a busy wife and mother then probably you are also knee deep in family and community responsibilities. These are all worthy things to spend your energy on, but without time to reconnect to yourself it is easy to feel depleted.

So here is my challenge for you. Think about what makes you feel alive. It doesn't have to be dangerous, but it should give you butterflies to think about it. Maybe it's entering a race, taking a class, starting a business, riding a horse, finding a new hobby, whatever it is...get out there and do it. When you realize how good you feel, you'll be empowered to try the next thing. Each time realizing that with every risk there is an opportunity to explore more of who you are.

One year later my family is back in Maui, and I spend the better part of an afternoon teaching my husband and two of my kids how to surf. It's not just a surf lesson. I'm modeling an appreciation for life, and hopefully the message is getting across to my daughter that no matter what age she is, all of life's adventures are still there waiting for her. A surge of joy courses through my veins, and once again I feel free and alive.

Consider what is holding you back. Is it fear, a lack of belief in yourself, busyness, or something else that is stopping you from remembering who you were before you took on the roles you have now? Then plan a day, or an hour, to dream. Make a list of ideas that intrigue you and take action. Ignore the negative voices in your head because they're stupid and they're lying! Grab a friend to do it with you if you need encouragement. Because whatever it is...you really CAN DO IT! Carpe Diem friends!

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Award Sunday Take 2

2009-10-18T12:48:00.000-07:00

Hello Again Everyone! I really like doing awards on Sunday, and I dislike waiting too long to say a proper thank you...so please...if you just tuned in...read BOTH posts!

MJ over at dirtylilconfessions.blogspot.com sent us some Honest Scrap love today. I've admired that award from afar for quite awhile now, but now it's ours...it's really OURS! Thanks MJ! How did you know? Go on over and show her a little love for being such a great commenter and supporter. We adore her blog honesty.

Without further adieu we would like to give this award to...
*http://crosscountrylove.blogspot.com
*http://runningwithletters.blogspot.com
*http://findingthepotofgold.blogspot.com
*http://ineedmom.blogspot.com

We were also featured as the guest of the day at thisstopwilloughby.blogspot.com. Thank you so much Willoughby for your awesome effort to support our blog community by highlighting and hosting guest blogs. Such a great way to encourage each of us in this zany world of blogging. YOU ROCK!

Lee at Hot Flashes...I wish you would stop getting so many awards so that I could give you one...DARN IT...you always have them all! Love you dear!! If you haven't been by to visit Lee yet...go there now! http://www.headacheshormonesandhotflashes.com

Thanks for the Award!

2009-10-18T07:57:00.000-07:00

Allyson of Pink Flip Flops & Wine mommyofmarshall gave us a Lovely Blog Award this week. Sooo sweet! If you don't know her, head on over there now. She is a doll. Her 100th post will happen next week...so be sure to show up for the celebration. You Rock!

I'd like to give it to two beautiful blogs that I really enjoy...
*hurstburst
*tuscanysmagicalplaces

Neva at geeneva.blogspot.com gave us this super cute award the other day. Gotta love the whole dog motif! She said that Lafawnda her dog loves us "cuz' they VLOG which Lafawnda finds much easier to enjoy since she can't read, and they have Latte in their name and we love coffee!" So kind of you Neva. Thanks for thinking of us. If you haven't been to her blog, head over there gals to add a little bit of sweetness to your day.

We would like to pass this award on to...
*Ally & Lela at twonormalmoms.blogspot.com
*JennyMac at letshaveacocktail.blogspot.com
*Jenn at rookno17.blogspot.com
*Erin at The Mother Load abbyandizzysmom.blogspot.com
*Allyson of Pink Flip Flops & Wine mommyofmarshall
*stirfryawesomeness.blogspot.com

Gosh, I had to stop somewhere. Truly, I love you all (those mentioned and not mentioned). Thanks for being there, reading, watching, hanging out with us. This blogging thing has been a great experience thanks to all of our Followers. Have a wonderful Sunday everyone!

Silk, Satin or Lace?

2009-10-16T07:25:00.000-07:00

Is the only lingerie we own these days what we collected for our honeymoon 18 years ago? Stay tuned to find out!

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like Alan Hamel (the Alpha Beta dude) used to say..."Tell A Friend!"

Let Me Hear Your Body Talk

2009-10-15T08:08:00.001-07:00

It's a double feature today ladies (Matty & Scoman)! In our first video we discuss how only celebrities manage to have swimsuit figures after childbirth. We talk about what it was really like after our pregnancies.

In the second video we chat about why we wore such atrocious clothing for nine long months of pregnancy? Seriously, what were we thinking?

If you are looking for new blogs to follow, here are a few I enjoyed this week:

*Elvira lives in Tuscany, Italy. Her blog posts are glimpses of her life there, primarily in pictures. So beautiful. tuscanysmagicalplaces.com

*I made her Apple-Cinnamon cake this week (took 1 hour from start to finish) and was fabulous! She writes about her life & gives lots of helpful tips along the way. ineedmom.blogspot.com

*A new blog with a few great posts this week, including a video she made called "Does Anybody Hear Her" about a women's shelter she works at. Very touching! crosscountrylove.blogspot.com

What? We can't hear you! Please leave a comment...and become a Follower!

Kid's Corner..."T" Time

2009-10-13T16:57:00.000-07:00

An idea came to me one day to create a box filled with permanent fabric markers and inexpensive white t-shirts in an assortment of sizes. When I'm at Target I buy a 10 pack of Hanes t-shirts for $12. If you've ever used plastic stencils throw those in the box as well. I keep an eye out at craft stores for stencil shapes my kids will like (i.e. sports, princesses, etc...).

Now imagine the kids are getting fidgety and you just don't want them to jump to the next media option. Some of my suggestions to them have been to create a t-shirt for their "secret club", for an upcoming holiday, make-up their own "kids camp", or design a shirt as a gift for a friend. Last year during a family reunion in Missouri all of the cousins spent a day working on t-shirts to celebrate our time together.

You know those dress up days at school that sneak up on you?! It's great to have the shirts on hand to put something quick together. Last year I forgot about International Day at school where every student is supposed to come dressed in something representing their heritage. It was during breakfast the morning of the event when my daughter reminded me. In 15 minutes three children were wearing Danish flags on white t-shirts, and they were thrilled to show off their art work at school.

Another way I've used this idea is to keep my kids safe. When they were really little I'd create a t-shirt they would wear when we would venture out to amusement parks, swim meets, anywhere where they could easily get separated from me. On the shirt I would write..."If I'm Lost Call 222-2222". I know it seems funny, but with your cell phone number written right there in plain sight, it could save you and your child from having a panic attack!

Grandparents love getting handmade gifts. Some of the grandparent gifts have been custom hankies, "I Love You" pillowcases, colorful aprons...really the possibilities are endless!

Sleepovers are also a great time to use this fun activity. The great news is that after the project is over, the kids have something they can actually use. These shirts often end up in my kids pajama drawers, and as they pull them out to sleep in at night. They often comment on the memories they bring back. I hope this idea brings a bit of fun and creativity to your family. Let me know if you come up with another great way to use the t-shirts. I'd love to post your ideas in an article in the future.

As always we'd love to have you comment and become a Follower. Thanks for hanging out with us today!

Protect The Girls!

2009-10-13T08:24:00.000-07:00

"Protect your breasts — get your heart pumping"
article by MSNBC.com

"In one recent study from Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, researchers examined cardiovascular fitness in more than 14,000 women with no history of breast cancer. Overall, women who were moderately fit, meaning that they did moderate-intensity exercise like brisk walking 150 minutes per week or vigorous aerobic activity like jogging for 75 minutes each week, had a one-third lower risk of developing breast cancer. Women who were highly fit, logging about twice that amount of activity, experienced a 55 percent reduction in risk."

That's a great reason ladies to buy a new leotard, pick out a snazzy body suit, pull on the brightly colored leg warmers and get out there and sweat! Nine years ago I started running. Here I tell Charisse about that first experience.

If you would like to read the entire article just click on the link below.
"Protect your breasts — get your heart pumping"

Leave a comment please because we L.O.V.E to hear from you.

The Middle Place

2009-10-12T08:17:00.000-07:00

This is an honest, fascinating look at how life in adulthood is so delicately intertwined with our childhood. The "Middle Place" is where the two intersect to form the whole of who we are. Kelly skillfully knits together the story of her childhood with a tragic experience going on in her present life. She lovingly describes what it means to grow up Corrigan. Endearing!

Her trials made me ponder how I would handle similar circumstances given my "middle place". It also helped me think about what my kids need from their childhood to help them cope well with the inevitable struggles that come in adult life. There was so much that I admired, even coveted about her childhood. Many examples of tenderness between her and her father that warmed my heart. The one thing I longed to see her embrace was the faith that came so easily to her father. I know God would have loved to embrace her during her time of desperation!

Her unwavering commitment to family and friendship made me think about how well I am doing in this area of my life. Do I love with a similar kind of passion and devotion? This book is funny, touching, painfully honest, and a tribute to the power of love. A quick read that is worth every moment. To make it easy for you, you can purchase this through Amazon right here on our blog in the right column.

Youtube link to hear Kelly talk about The Middle Place. A beautiful video.

Love & Thanks To Jenny Mac

2009-10-11T09:09:00.000-07:00

Two...yes two posts in one day. Please look at both of them, because it is a love fest around here, and I want to make sure everyone is properly thanked, applauded, encouraged, and visited! If I haven't mentioned your awesome blog yet...be patient with me. I really do love you too!

This award comes to us from Jenny Mac at letshaveacocktail.blogspot.com. Gosh, this seems a little suggestive you devil you! She has an amazing blog with a huge Following, but somehow always makes the rounds to read and comment on even new blogs like ours. Seriously, I don't know how she does it! We are honored by this award which comes with a few rules. We should give it to 4 other bloggers, and tell them why we think they give good blog. So, here we go...

*dirtylilconfessions.blogspot.com Since I am new to this blog thang, I love to point out other newish blogs that deserve a bigger Following. She is honest, vulnerable, great at commenting, and would love visitors. So head over there!

*504main.blogspot.com I'm going to call this a love-volley. Passin the love back and forth baby. Just because you really deserve it in every way. Beautiful & creative blog, and a great commenter too!

*batcrapcrazy.blogspot.com Always there for me. Amazing comments. Terrific content on your blog. Thrilled to honor you for being a stellar blogger!

*5thsister.blogspot.com Fun blog with a good mixture of posts, comments, honesty, and just an overall great bloggy friend.

Thank You Ever So Much!

2009-10-11T08:47:00.000-07:00

Really...do you really think so...oh no you couldn't mean us? Well, we are all out flattered and proudly accept this award from Holly at 504main.blogspot.com. If you haven't been there to see her you have to go right now! I stumbled on to her blog when I first started looking for blogs to Follow. We share a lot of the same history without ever having met each other...not to mention we share the same great name! Many, many thanks Holly!

When I know the creator of an award I really like to do a shout out. So HOWDY Lee at headacheshormonesandhotflashes.com...YOU ROCK...you know you do! And in fact...you rock so hard that after much consideration I felt that you should really be able to post your own award in your awards slideshow. That's right! I think that you smoke/sizzle/flash around this bloggy world spreading good tidings, lovely comments, and producing amazing posts. So, in honor of you...I give you your own award! I know that seems a little strange, but honestly...are there any rules against this? I think not! Thanks for being an amazing blogfriend.

I wanted to thank some of my newest blog Followers for coming on by for a visit and leaving great comments. Really makes our day! So let me introduce to everyone...
*runningwithletters.blogspot.com
*findingthepotofgold.blogspot.com
*5thsister.blogspot.com
*leohaven.blogspot.com
*dirtylilconfessions.blogspot.com
*ineedmom.blogspot.com

Spend some time on this happy Sunday getting to know these wonderful gals.

It's Raining

2009-10-10T06:42:00.000-07:00

We all have Faith in one form or another. We all believe in something. It might be a concept, a person, a feeling, a doctrine, perhaps even a faith that there is nothing to believe in. We'd like to embrace you wherever you are on your faith journey. No criticism, no judgment, just a chance to experience God and see how He would like to reveal Himself to you. Here is something that happened to us last Spring that we wanted to share.

Several years ago my husband started his own company. It blessed us not with enormous monetary gain, but with time. Time for my husband to have more dimension to his life outside of work, time for him to help in our kids classrooms at school, time for him to get home early enough for us to have regular family dinners together. It has been all that we hoped and more.

Hubby & kids on a hike last Spring.

It has also been a struggle. Financing is no easy task for any organization right now. During one particularly difficult time we rented the movie "Facing the Giants" for one of our movie/pizza nights with the kids. This is not a highly produced Hollywood film, it is a simple low budget movie with a moving message about the power of God in our lives. During one scene the coach is overwhelmed with all of the turmoil in his life. He is approached by a man that tells him this parable. "Two men asked God for rain. One prepared his fields to receive the rain, the other did nothing. Which man do you think God blessed with the rain?"

My husband had been feeling really low and uncertain that all of the effort he was putting into his company to save it would ever make any difference at all. I looked over at him during that scene and saw tears in his eyes. It was such an encouragement for my husband to continue pushing forward. A couple of weeks later we woke up to get the kids ready for school and our son Ben ran to the breakfast table to announce with great hope, "Papa it's raining!" My husband smiled and said, "That's great Ben." Ben just looked at us and said, "Don't you get it, you prepared the fields Papa and God is sending the rain." Such faith, such hope, out of the mouth of a child. It infused us all with anticipation to expectantly watch for God to work out a plan for good. I wish I could say that was the day that the company was funded. Sometimes things just aren't that simple. But in God's unique way, He used a movie and my son's childlike faith to teach our family a valuable lesson of trust.

A great family movie to rent at your local video store!

"Facing The Giants"

The Amazing Cucumber

2009-10-09T07:03:00.001-07:00

What else can we say? You just have to watch! Hope you have your Depends on.

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Let's Talk Intimacy Ladies!

2009-10-08T07:10:00.001-07:00

Gosh, have we been in bloggyville long enough to talk frankly about such a vulnerable part of our lives? This video is a candid conversation about how we need to value sexual intimacy in our marriages...thinking about it, making it a priority, loving our husbands, enjoying it. I dare you not to laugh!

Part I

More conversation about maintaining a positive perspective on sex, realizing it should be a vital part of our marriages, improving it, initiating it. Dive in to Part II blogistas!

Part II

Well, there it is friends. We'd love to hear your take on this topic...for us or against us. I think this can be a difficult topic for every couple at some point in their marriage. Either way it is all good and important to discuss. Don't forget to leave a comment, tell a friend, and become a Follower.

She's Crafty...Not Really

2009-10-07T07:02:00.000-07:00

Actually, I am NOT crafty! I love to take pictures with our little digital camera, and probably like you, struggle with how to use those pictures and not just leave them stored on my computer. My sister-in-law who goes by Aunt Ruthie on her super homemaking blog http://www.sugarpiefarmhouse.com made an adorable family tree for her home. I thought I had a photo of her version...but I just can't find it. Shoot!

We don't live close to family...but I wanted my kids to see pictures of them everyday. So, I made a family tree...and because our friendships have become our extended family I also made a friendship tree. It sits in a corner of our dining room right next to the dinner table. Everyone who comes over makes a comment about how much they like it. One great function of it is that it holds about 20 photos, and it is easy to change out the pictures whenever you choose. Aunt Ruthie's version was a little too country for our home, so I made some modifications to her great idea and mine looks like this.

Here are one of the photos up close. I didn't want to make each frame by hand so I used a photo mailer made by Martha Stewart and cut them apart. You could also use nice card stock and those sticky corners and slide in the photo. Then I hole punched the top of the frame, threaded cording through the hole to hang the picture, and covered the hole with a decorative brad. Most of the supplies I was able to buy at a local store called Michaels. They don't sell supplies online, but I included the links so you could see clearly what I purchased. When Ruthie did her project she used a beautiful branch she cut down from one of her trees outside. She lives in the country in Missouri, so that option worked for her. I had each color photo printed in black and white...and waaalaaa it looks cohesive and contemporary. Once I had the supplies I easily put the project together in one afternoon. My daughter enjoyed helping me too! I hope this inspires you to do something lovely for your home.

Photo mailer
http://www.michaels.com/art/online/displayProductPage?productNum=pc0988

Brads
http://www.michaels.com/art/online/displayProductPage?productNum=sb1135

Braided Sticks
http://www.michaels.com/art/online/displayProductPage?productNum=fl0879

What I love is how one person's vision can be a catalyst for so many other great ideas. That is something all of you do for me in countless ways every day!

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"The Man"

2009-10-06T08:21:00.001-07:00

As parents aren't we always looking for new strategies to better deal with difficult behavior? Here we talk about "The Man" which was a technique I created and used with my little ones. Then to my horror I found out how Charisse was misusing my technique. Listen, laugh, learn, but please...use it correctly! Hope this gives you a good giggle.

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Finding Joy In Everyday Things

2009-10-05T06:34:00.001-07:00

Have you thought about the everyday things in life that bring you joy?

Music connects me to my soul in ways that nothing else can. Heated seats, even in California, is a wonderful simple pleasure. Coffee may have replaced blood in my veins...LOVE IT! Chocolate is a daily ritual...it MUST be dark! Running somewhere beautiful like the beach or in the mountains.

Time with friends laughing and sharing. Collecting lotions and luxurious soaps has become quite an addiction. I can close my eyes and pretend I'm on vacation or at the spa with just a shower and a slathering of something delicious on my body. Photos of my family and friends are also an obsession. On vacations or special outings I take hundreds of digital pictures. I love them! I think it stems from being the fourth child with only a handful of pictures and one album of my childhood to show for it.

Candles, candles everywhere...by my front door, on my dining room table, over every fireplace, in the bathrooms, kitchen, bedrooms...really they are everywhere! They make me SO happy. I light them several times a day. They make even the most everyday events seem more special.

Watching my kids laugh instantly fills me with joy. When they show genuine kindness like bringing me their favorite blanket and teddy when I feel sick, or show compassion for a homeless person, or ask to pray because an ambulance just went whizzing by. Sneaking in to steal kisses as my 11,9, and 6 year old sleep. I can't resist making sure they are still breathing.

I love eating new foods, riding bikes in the rain, pretending to sing like my favorite artists, getting sweaty and dirty doing something new and adventurous, exploring trails, play dates with my husband, movie night and pizza with my family. I love our little house that is just the right size for us. We can walk to school, walk to our little downtown, play with neighborhood kids, and comfortably be outside 12 months of the year.

Looking at all of these simple pleasures and realizing that these are just the tip of the iceberg I stand amazed! Sometimes busyness disconnects me from experiencing the simple pleasures in my life. Then I take the time to engage and find joy in the everyday moments and listen to my soul. Deep down I know the truth...God is present in these simple pleasures, and He is so good!

We Humbly Accept This Award

2009-10-04T07:29:00.000-07:00

Good morning everyone! We wanted to send a "SHOUT OUT" to a friend that just sent us a super thoughtful award. She writes on her blog called The Mother Load at http://abbyandizzysmom.blogspot.com. We really enjoy everything she posts. So grab your latte and head over there to check her out! Thanks so much Erin...we think you're the best too.

The award was created by another amazing blogger...Daffy at Batcrap Crazy. Really, you'll pee your pants if you go over there! Have a great day everyone:)